Signs of a Student in Distress

Are you concerned about a student’s well-being and/or safety? Have you noticed changes in their academic performance or personal difficulties and you're unsure how to help? Support is available, starting with the Stony Brook University CARE Team.

The CARE Team is here to help with a wide range of concerns that may affect a student’s well-being or ability to succeed. If you notice behaviors that raise concern, referring them is an important step toward getting students the support they may need.

The CARE Team can coordinate essential support for various challenges that may indicate a student is in distress. While this isn't an exhaustive list, it serves as a guide.

Personal Safety Concerns:

• Verbal or written threats of violence towards oneself or others, including online threats
• Threats involving weapons on campus
• Talk of or evidence of self-harm or suicidality
• Stalking or harassment
• Significant substance abuse problems
• Incidents of bias or discrimination
• Exposure to traumatic events
• Domestic or intimate partner violence

Academic Concerns:

• Frequent or unexplained absences from class
• A noticeable decline in academic performance
• Disruptive behavior in the classroom
• Social withdrawal or isolation from peers

Behavioral Concerns:

• Incoherent or irrational behavior
• Uncontrolled anger or extreme rudeness
• Excessive crying or emotional instability
• Disordered eating patterns
• Significant changes in appearance, mood, or social interactions
• High levels of emotional distress

SHARE A CONCERN ABOUT A STUDENT BY SUBMITTING A CARE REFERRAL BELOW

If something feels off or you’re concerned about a student—even if they don't display specific signs—or if you notice or encounter any of the concerns listed, please submit a referral to the CARE Team below. Your referral can make a crucial difference in ensuring the student receives the support they need.

Please be aware that these reports are reviewed Monday through Friday 9am-5pm, excluding holidays. If this is an emergency or you are concerned about imminent safety  please contact University Police at (631) 632-3333.